thats my life so sorry you all dont have my complete attention right now
but here's a cunt-ton of the sexiest/most inspirational/beautiful pics of all time
which i know is what you love the most
the things between my bf and i was totally mutual, i dont want to be in a relationship
not that i dont love him
but i have been in sooo many fucking relationships, some long, some short
i have only had 1 one night stand in my life
but at this age i honestly feel like people shouldnt get into bf/gf status or take things too seriously
my boyfriend and i have been together since the day we met, like ridiculously obsessed with eachother, but i told him immediately i didnt want the bf/gf status
because everything at the beginning of a new relationship is So exciting and its such a thrill,
the happiest time in a relationship is the beginning and i dont care what anyone says
im not saying go out and be a whore, when im seeing someone its just like we are exclusive and im not out running around with other guys
But here are my points
1. when you become "official" you subconsciously have expectations of the other person and if/when they dont live up to them you're disappointed, people in relationships are constantly disappointed in eachother, even if they dont know it...thats why girls go crazy and guys get crazy jealous-if ur not at the status then most of the time those expectaions dont arise and you know you have nothing to be mad about, obviously there are some circumstances but its like your more relaxed (now if your seeing someone and they go out and fuck a bunch of ppl yea thats not ok and obviously that persons a douche and you need to move on)
2. Girls-Chill The Fuck Out- dont be crazy, dont overthink every single little situation, dont be insecure-if you have to fake confidence, Do it- sooner or later you wont have to fake it anymore because ur used to it, act like your the shit whether you think so or not, i gaurentee you other ppl are attracted to confidence (they dont know if its fake or not) but dont be an egotistical little bitch either. but you have no idea how much guys love a girl that can do her own thing and doesnt need to be reassured that he likes her every 5 seconds, if hes giving you attention and only you, chill the fuck out obviously he likes you and like i said, if hes out being a whore, drop him (unless you wanna go out and slut it up a little bit too- which is acceptable to a point-every girl needs to)
3. YOU ARE YOUNG- if you are in a super serious relationship before you are 21 be ready for a shit show, its not about the bars or getting drunk and hooking up (i mean thats a big part of it most of the time) but you have no idea how many people are in the world! i try to meet someone new every day! no matter how happy you are in a relationship it does hold you back in some ways, single ppl have more motivation and TIME obviously to go out and follow their dreams!! travel, meet new people, experience LIFE before you get knocked up and ur broke and have no time or money to get outta the town you grew up in!
4. There are other fish in the sea! in my mind if a guy is acting sketchy or if we end our relationship (everything is a relationship from fuck buddy, friends, bf/gf whatever the situation) i honestly dont give a fuck, the biggest thing that happends to me is i get that sick little knot in my stomach because YES i do feel sad that this thing that was great at one time is either gone or changed but the best way to get over it is to meet someone new, get a distraction and you have a new adventure, there are millions of ppl in the world, dont let one single person make you not enjoy a single moment of YOUR life, its YOUR life make the BEST of it!
im not a relationship hater, im just sick of how fucking crazy our generation is, ppl need to get over the same old shit
the world has changed, ppl have changed, perceptions have changed, why does everyone do the same old shit!
try something NEW and try to make every single moment count!
if you're sad about something, the first thing you should do is take some sort of action to make that day the best it can be!
btw im not sad but i just want people to look at this and understand that we dont need to do what is expected
do what feels good,, whether you think its right or wrong- who gives a fuck, do it for you!
i have Stopped taking the Oxyelite while fasting, i also took a few days off from the gym
im going to hold out on this fast for as long as i can then start hitting the gym again and probably get on the oxyelite again
ill update of course
oh got my hair done today..it's effing amazing ill have pics soon! :)
lajollahc-- can you do a post on how to do weight machines? I feel like an idiot doing 2 hrs. of cardio at the gym a day but when I look at all of those weight machines i'm just so intimidated! i don't want to ask any of the jocks there because they're "total brahs"...it's frustrating sticking to push-ups and other simple things...
-- i personally don't do a lot of weight machines, i mainly use dumbbells and incline benches for sit ups, watching videos is the best way, and i actually ask guys at the gym if they're cute haha its not terrible to ask a guy for help, but i recommend bodybuilding.com and browse through their exercises...there's a lot of good stuff on there
livelifeTHIN-- beautiful post as always girl, hands down my favorite thinspo site. i was wondering what your experience with oxyelite has been like so far, i just got mine in the mail but haven't taken any yet. take care and good luck with your fast!
-- i was only on oxyelite for about a week, it was awesome because i never had an appetite i seriously had to force myself to eat, but then i had a day i was so busy i didnt eat anything, and i forgot to take it the next morning but also didnt eat anything that day, so i knew my metabolism was way slowed down so i just turned it into a fast, so ive been off the oxyelite for a few days now and im just fasting for another couple days.
alot of you like my taste in music and ive been asked to share some of my fave songs...since im a complete music addict...its gonna be a long list...so i put a temporary playlist up of songs that are blowing up my ipod